I haven't posted much personal stuff on this blog since
terri_osborne and I broke up at the end of April. This was a deliberate choice. While this is still my personal blog, I'd like to keep it professional, if you know what I mean.
However, while Terri and I did split eight months ago, it took until now for us to stop living together. Originally, she was to move to another apartment in the building, but then our landlord needed to give the apartment to their handyman, who lost his apartment due to a change in ownership of the building he and his wife were living in.
Since then, the handyman has had the apartment (and the job as handyman) taken away from him for a variety of reasons, not least being the time I had to call the police due to an argument between the handyman's son and the son's pregnant girlfriend that sounded like it was leading to violence.
Yeah.
Needless to say, Terri got the apartment right quick, amidst apologies from the landlord. She's in the process of moving right now. She started sleeping down there Saturday night, and starting late yesterday, she took Marcus and Aoki.
There was never any doubt that she would take the cats when she and I stopped living together. Marcus has been her cat since 1992 when he was six weeks old. And Cus-Cus needs his bratty younger sister, as he's getting older and crankier, and Aoki keeps him active. Basically, Marcus needs Aoki more than I do.
But last night was really really really hard. Aoki's been one of my greatest sources of constant joy since
we brought her home from Bide-a-Wee in 2004. Yesterday was the last time she'll sit on my hip while I take a nap, the last time she'll rest on my tummy when I'm asleep, the last time she'll wander up to my desk chair and mrow and me hoping for scritches, the last time she'll sit on my lap while I'm working at the computer, the last time she'll knock my deodorant off the bureau because there's no food in the food bowl.
I will adjust. And there are very likely to be more cats in my future.
But Aoki will always be my little girl. She was the first cat that was truly in any way mine -- I inherited Marcus and Mittens when Terri moved in with me -- and I miss her horribly.